After getting my law degree, I worked as a trainee at a law firm for a few months. I quickly realized I was working very hard for very little money, and the traineeship didn't guarantee any job security. I just started thinking that I might as well make way more money as an escort. It might seem like a bit of a bold choice, but I was never afraid of what other people might think.
What was your first time like? My first time was unplanned—it happened almost by chance. A person I would not have slept with for free offered to pay me for sex, and I became curious. He was a lawyer, too, and for just 20 minutes of sex, he offered the exact amount of money I made in a month as a trainee.
I accepted, but not because I needed the money that badly—I did it mostly to boost my self-esteem, which at the time was very low.
Soon after, I realized there was good money to be made in being an escort, but that the job had somewhat of an expiration date. I was almost 30, so I had no time to waste. When I posted my first ad online, clients just started calling. What's your typical client like? I don't have one. My clients are incredibly diverse in terms of their social class, age, marital status, profession, and sexual preferences. Happy singles, lonely people, gay, straight, married couples, lovers, couples with friends, and couples with other escorts—it's all work for me.
I generally do attract more men than women.
From my personal experience, people that you'd least suspect pay for sex. Often, it's because they have a conflicted relationship with their sexual fantasies. The more they repress their desires, the stronger they come out in bed. How do your sessions work? Is it awkward when it's time to pay?
I always try to establish some sort of dialogue with the client. I pretend to believe everything they tell me, especially when they conjure up a fictional identity. I listen to them and make them feel special because they're paying to be the center of attention. Some clients tell me I'm better than their therapist. How they choose to pay me usually reflects their character.
Smug clients casually hand me money like they're paying at a toll booth, and the shy ones act like it's a present—which I hate because I worked hard for that money. The more uninhibited refer to it as a fee, acknowledging that I'm a professional. The romantic ones put it in an envelope with a little message, while the old nostalgics pay by check. Then there are those who just leave the money on the table or sneak it into my pockets. What do you do if you don't find a client attractive at all? I don't take any sexual enhancement pills, so foreplay or my imagination can be really important to get me going.
But even when my client is a really hot guy, I can't fully enjoy it because they're paying me. It's not someone I met randomly; I can't let go as much as I would with people who aren't my clients. Have you ever agreed to have sex without a condom? People who sleep around are normally the ones who are most worried about getting an STD, so it's rare that you're asked to do that.
I started doing it out of necessity and just ended up sticking with it.
Within five minutes an undercover police car pulled up and he went to jail. Special Projects. Maybe me stroking her neck whilst discussing how she likes to orgasm around the dinner table might have something to do with it If it ever became different then a lifestyle change is an order. I always try to establish some sort of dialogue with the client. Confessions of a Male Escort , in which he talks about his experiences and the state of the business.
My women clients are all very similar. Not what most would call attractive. Usually ages from 30 to 45 with very few outside that age range. They are usually larger women and some of them have definitely been a bit slow. Not retarded or anything but just a little dimmer then the average person. Nearly all are inexperienced.
There have been a few that fall outside all those traits but it really is a rare occurrence. But in the moment I find it pretty easy to fantasize about other women or experiences. Either by closing my eyes or just letting my eyes slide out of focus and start picturing a more attractive woman. What works really well for me is thinking really hard about some of my favorite sexual encounters and my best orgasms.
Any condom should keep you in the game long enough. There are quite a lot of couples out there who are looking for something new to spice up their bedroom life. I honestly love when couples contact me. A lot of my clients are in totally sexless relationships and I always wonder if the fire could get hot again if only they talked about some new sexual experiences and acted on them.
I work on my own.
I just feel like there are more important things to do in the city then tracking down one male pro. As far as sketchy clients go I always read the messages beforehand carefully to weed out the weird sounding people. If the words someone is using give you a bad feeling then skip it. Again bad feeling in your gut then bail. I am a pretty big, strong guy as well and I always feel like I am capable of defending myself.
I do consider myself straight and yes I do oral on men. That always makes me feel super uncomfortable. I do not. I get asked nearly every time though. Fun fact from my experience most gay men are catchers. I would say only 15 or 20 percent of the men ask me to be the bottom.
The rest ask me to top them. I decline all of them of course. Good thing there are other ways to please the fellas.
High class male escort Madison James answers 21 of your most burning It can vary so much but there's a lot of hotels, nice bars, restaurants. Ok, so I'm neither male nor an escort (but this question was asked of me anyway). Where do I begin? Are you talking about gay escorts or straight? The sex trade.
Yup I do oral and the women that want it as well. Not many but every now and then certainly. Something I did I think was cringeworthy. This woman was performing oral on me and her teeth kept scraping me. At the time for some reason flexing my Johnson made the pain less intense so I kept doing it.
Well a few minutes into it the motion of flexing my Johnson so much made me squeeze out a very audible fart.